I remember as I entered my 5th grade year, I was excited for a new beginning at a new school and the thought of making new friends. Little did I know, I would become the victim of tremendous bullying for the next four years. It got so bad, that I had to transfer to another middle school in the half of my 7th grade semester, but at the new school things hadn’t changed much and I was bullied even more. Facebook wasn’t around at this time so I faced more traditional bullying…name called, fights, etcetera.
Today in the age of social media, kids are faced with the threat of cyberbullying. It has taken over our schools and there have been a few incidents in which students have committed suicide over cyberbullying. When I was middle school, I did think of committing suicide, but I was raised in the church and the lord had reached out to me before I had done something horrendous. I never told my parents, even though they found out I had missed 57 days of school in the 8th grade due to my fear of getting bullied, and if they asked why I missed so many days, I lied to them. It was embarrassing to tell them I was getting bullied. My teachers wouldn’t care either, even when the bullying happened in their faces.
Lori Cullen, a blogger for the Times Union advises parents to step up and watch what their children are doing because the first step to stopping bullying begins at home.
“It’s not just about keeping an eye on my kids online, but also offline as well,” Cullen said.
Lt. Joseph Donohue of the State police department agreed.
“We need to get in front of this thing as parents and teach our kids ethics online,” he said. “It starts at home. Parents are the key. Instill a sense of right and wrong from the gecko.”
Sandra Marley, a local principal advises for all parents and teachers to keep an eye closing on the children if they need to suspect any kind of bullying.
“Know your students and know them well, see if there are any patterns in their behaviors,” Marley said.
I believe if parents and teachers communicate with their students and show them right from wrong, we may see less of cyberbullying. Parents need to know what there kids are doing online and teachers need to keep an eye out for any suspicious behaviors that may indicate that bullying is present.